Domestic and Sexual Violence and Abuse
Interpersonal Gender Based Violence and Abuse (IGBVA) is a priority for the Devon Safeguarding Children Partnership and Safer Devon. There is a local ambition to coordinate work in educational settings to better respond to children and young people experiencing IGBVA, and to support families and school staff to respond to and prevent child sexual abuse, including harmful sexual behaviour, sexual violence and harassment, and the impact of pornography.
What is Interpersonal Gender Based Violence and Abuse?
IGBVA occurs when one person in an intimate personal or family relationship uses violence and/or abuse to maintain power and control over another person. Devon, in line with the UK more broadly, works with the UK Home Office (2021) definition:
“Any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, or threatening behaviour, violence, or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members, regardless of gender or sexuality”.
Abusive behaviours include physical abuse, sexual abuse, threatening behaviour, controlling or coercive behaviour, and psychological abuse. Within the law, people are considered connected if they are or have been married, civil partners, in an intimate relationship, or are relatives. This may include sibling abuse or abuse by a child to a parent.
This change in definition reflects a shift in the understanding of domestic abuse. However, the law states that domestic abuse can only occur between people aged 16 and over, which leaves challenges with defining victims and perpetrators of domestic abuse. The term ‘teen domestic dating violence’ is used to describe when abuse is perpetrated and experience by adolescents in relationships (peer to peer). For the first time, children and young people are recognised as victims of domestic abuse in their own right if they see, hear, or experience the effects of abuse, and are related to or fall under ‘parental responsibility’ of the victim or perpetrator.
Every 30 seconds, a call is made to police in England about domestic abuse and on average, 1 in 5 children are subjected to domestic abuse – that’s 6 children in every classroom. Devon’s Operation Encompass notifies a school when police have visited a home for a domestic abuse incident with a school-aged child present. Data shows an upward trend in notifications, with around 200-300 notifications each month (2024).
Essential signposting
Domestic and Sexual Violence and Abuse – Safer Devon
Keeping Children Safe in Education 2025 – GOV.UK
Teaching Relationships Education to Prevent Sexual Abuse – GOV.UK
Sexual Harassment Webinars – DfE
Guidance for Teachers & School Staff – ENOUGH (GOV.UK)
Relationships and Sex Education and Health Education Guidance – GOV.UK
Violence Against Women and Girls in Schools and Among Children and Young People – UK Parliament
Education Policy, Children, and Violence – Youth Endowment Fund
Safeguarding One Minute Guides – Devon County Council
Supporting staff experiencing domestic abuse
Domestic abuse: a guide for school staff – Education Support
Domestic and sexual violence and abuse
Lesson Plans – Oak National Academy
I Say It’s Not Okay (Video) – Plan International
16 Big Questions – Bold Voices
Beaten By My Boyfriend – BBC Bitesize
Domestic Abuse Lesson Package – Youth & Policing Education Hub
Resources and Lesson Plans – NSPCC
SS4 Educational Toolkit Primary – Safer Streets Fund
SS4 Educational Toolkit Secondary – Safer Streets Fund
Expect Respect Education Toolkit – Act On It Now
Something’s Not Right – PSHE Association
Pornography
Porn Critical Sex Education – Culture Reformed
Misogyny
Tackling Violence Against Women and Girls – Thames Valley Police
Online Misogyny and the Manosphere – PSHE Association
Challenging Masculinity and the Manosphere – Brook
Involving Boys in Preventing Street Harassment – Beyond Equality
RSHE & Tackling Inceldom – School of Sexuality Education
16 Facts to Challenge Misogyny and Change Culture – 16 Days of Action
J9 Domestic Abuse Initiative – More Positive Me – this course is 2.5 hours face-to-face training, looking at what domestic abuse is, what to do if someone discloses to you, safety planning, and managing emotions. Available for whole school training.
Domestic and Sexual Violence and Abuse Training – Devon County Council
Quick awareness raising videos
Recognising if a child is experiencing domestic abuse – NSPCC
Shore – a safe space for teenagers worried about their sexual behaviour.
Devon Safeguarding Children Partnership – a multi-agency partnership aiming to support children and young people’s safety.
Risk Assessment – domestic abuse, stalking, and harassment (DASH) and MARAC.
Sexual Assault Referral Centres (SARCs) – offer practical, medical, and emotional support to everyone, regardless of age or gender.
